Africa: Rock the Casbah

We finally made it to Northern Africa!! One step closer to crossing off bucket list #1, visit 6/7 continents. Porter stayed with the grandparents while Luke and I took part in the “self imposed hostage crisis” that is the guided tours through Tangier. Thanks Rick Steves for that lovely visual. It was like a crazy parade of tourists through the old town of tangiers, which was a little lot disconcerting.

 

Thanks to our local tour guide Mohammed, his cousins constantly get an influx of tourists through their various shops. Today those tourists were us. I’m not sure how any big purchases are actually made, because we were herded through the various shops with such speed that there was never any time to look in my wallet to see which coins and bills I had. Certainly I could have been more prepared.

 

We’ve decided that, if we don’t have to, there will never be another group tour of anywhere ever. I will never look at a group of Asian toursists in America the same again. It takes courage to stick out that bad.The hardest part of the day was the final 15 minute walk to the busses, when all the vendors knew we were almost out of their reach, and the final assault of sales reached a crescendo. If there had been time to shop and haggle in the market, I think I could have gotten into that. But as it was, on this tour, the constant harrassment made it an experience I wouldn’t mind never having again. The only time I’m looking forward to this whole type of experience will be at the Grand Bizarre in Istanbul, with my husband.

 

There was a lovely tour of the new parts of Tangier, which is loaded with construction and developement. Thanks to their newest king, Mohammed 6, the country is doing better than ever. Women are getting more freedom and the economy is getting stronger. Everyone seems to think this new guy is pretty rad. All told it was a great experience and I’m so glad we did it. Now for the onlslaught of photos!
We left Spain from the port of Tarifa.
Luke was really pumped about this trip. Thanks to him we actually did it and for that I love him even more.
Ramparts in Tarifa, Spain.
A pre-boat cafe con lech and muffin breakfast.
Moroccan flag
Apartments near the port of Tangier. It was pretty third world here.
Tallest mosque in the city. I was bummed not to hear any calls to prayer.
Oh look, we’re about to make a right hand turn from the inside lane.
The houses got progressively better the further out of the city and higher into the hills we went. Some things about cities are the same around the world. Everyone likes a view.
I couldn’t bring myself to do the obligitory camel ride.
This was a pretty tender camel mama/baby moment. It made me miss my baby.
You can’t really tell, but there are some beautiful villas and apartment buildings being put up in the hills.
Entrance into the Casbah. Hold onto your purses (sanity) ladies and gentlemen.
You like kitties? Tangiers is for you!
This is what up looked like.
There were moments of real beauty.
Straight of Gibralter, where the Atlantic meets the Mediteranean.
There were bonafide snake charmers, but the snakes looked like they just wanted to go back into their baskets.
This was the view of Mohammed all day long. I’m pretty sure he’s on the phone, calling the next shop, to tell them we’re on our way.
If you look closely at the top of the building in the center you will see a lovely garden and outdoor area. That’s where I want to see.
We were being moved along so quickly that the photo of what was hundreds of eggs was blurry.
Center of the old town. Look, there’s Mohammed on his phone again.
My absolute favorite part was the food market. It was exotic, real and smelled delish. For all the fresh meat hanging around there were no funny smells. Just real fresh food.
Bunny anyone?
Maybe a leg of beef?
Piles and piles of spices.
I smelled the olives long before I saw them. It was a thing of beauty.
Speaking of beauty, I literally cried when I sat in the carpet shop. They were truly amazing pieces of art.
 
This is the photo of the pharmacy that I wasn’t supposed to take. Hee hee. I hope it doesn’t give away all their trade secrets.
Lunch was lamb kabobs, cous cous, cabbage, carrots and chicken with a healthy dose of hot sauce. I loved it. The German gal next to me, not so much.
A wee shot glass of mint tea. Rick Steves podcast said there would be orange blossoms and sugar in it too. There wasn’t. LIES!
I heard the squeals and screams from a block away and knew immediately what was going on.
RECESS!
Bye bye Tangier.
This is me, proudly displaying my VDT sticker aka “self imposed hostage” badge.

 

Spain: Marbella Sick Day

Today Luke and I took a grown up day and travelled the Mediterranean Sea to the exotic markets of Morocco. Wait. No. That’s not what happened at all. That’s what was supposed to happen, and if we’re lucky tomorrow we’ll watch the sun rise from a boat between the continents of Europe and Africa. Today’s trip was thwarted by some nasty little mandarin oranges which didn’t sit so well with Porter’s little tummy. The day started early enough, but looked more like this:
If Porter looks green, that’s because he was. 3 hours of a heaving good time an hour long nap made today our rest day. He was holding onto that water bottle for dear life. Poor guy.
Luckily he made a recovery by the afternoon so we got to have dinner in Marbella.
Sorry Capitola sand castle contest, this guy wins.
Marbella sunset
 
 
Statues, NOT! Porter was intrigued by the performance artists.
Fish for dinner. So good.
Luke is teaching Porter how to do a traditional Alton photo shoot. This one is “hola!”
“moon”
“Hurray!”
Tomorrow: AFRICA! (maybe)

 

Spain: Ronda

Breakfast at the hotel is amazing. Fresh squeezed OJ, cafe con leche, breads of every assortment and thanks to the brits we get eggs and bacon.
I keep meaning to get a picture of the food before I devour it, but it’s just too good.
At a hotel in Ronda. I didn’t get any landscape photos because it looks exactly like the drive through the California foothills.
It’s the bridge in the next picture!
Serious faces.
The old town.
Firefighters, mmm.
Maybe wearing the heeled boots weren’t the best choice today, but damn I looked good.
There are no Ferdinand the friendly bulls here. Only those ready to die are invited into the ring.
Cafe con lech!!
Olives
Gazpacho, cold tomato soup from this region (Andelucia)
Oxtail and fries. I opted for the most traditional item on the menu, and it didn’t disappoint.
Porter was most excited by the “neighs”.
Horse corridor to the bull ring.
Put on your tight pants, cause we’re gonna rastle with some bulls!
Alas…no bulls to kill, only circles to swing. I like this better.
Bull murder, worth getting dressed up for!
Original matador costume.
I learned today that many matadors have children immediately after getting married, because they often have their family jewels taken off by angry bulls. But they do wear pretty outfits.
Ronda was actually quite beautiful and we enjoyed it immensely.
 
Tomorrow, AFRICA!!!

 

Spain: Marbella

After a full 24 hours of travelling we reached our final destination of Marbella, Spain. We are in the Costa del Sol, a place where many Brits come to vacation. This means there is plenty of tea, beer and chips. On which I’m quite confident that Porter would be happy to live on, chips that is. We’re staying at The Marbella Heights hotel which has a Balinese theme. I’m planning a photo shoot with all the Buddah’s on site. My friend Sarah would love the styling here. Here’s the photo montage of the last 2 days.
Dewy spider web the morning of departure.
Checking in for our flight at SFO. Porter and Tutu are busy identifying the train that would frequent the area above the ticketing area.

In the last moment of packing I read a blog that said I should bring at least 2 changes of clothes for Porter. While I thought that was excessive, I quickly found it to be correct when Porter soiled 2 of the 3 outfits I brought before we even got on the plane. I had to go 3rd world at the airport, washing clothes and collecting water (in our water bottles). I then hung the clothes to dry in the airplane. All we needed were our chickens and the picture would have been complete. Needless to say, the clothes were dry in time for a costume change at the Marbella airport.

We flew business class, which was AWESOME, the seats reclined to 180* and each seat has it’s own screen. Porter got to watch Lady and the Tramp with the grandparents.

Looking out the window on Grandpa’s lap.
Porter got more sleep than anyone. If only we all had a mom to sleep on.
At the Frankfurt airport.
After 24 hours of travelling we arrived at The Marbella Heights.
 
The view off our room patio.
The dining patio.
The patio. I could stay here, forever.
Cava, Spanish sparkling wine. The perfect way to celebrate our arrival.

 

 

In Between Day

Today was our in between travel day and tomorrow we leave on our big trip! We spent the day hanging out in Capitola with my parents, who will also be coming on our trip with us. This morning Allen came over for breakfast and it was so nice to catch up with our old friend. The weather was lovely and Porter pillaged my dad’s raspberry bushes, much to the delight of them both. Tomorrow is a big day! Stay tuned.

Eating homemade chicken soup, being the center of the universe. It’s a good day.

King Protea in bloom.

Midwifery Week: Share the Survey

For the last day of National Midwifery Week we’ve been tasked with sharing the most shocking results from the ACNM survey  that “was completed by 1,252 women between the ages 18 and 45, of a variety of cultural backgrounds, from across the United States.” I have to say that most of the results should be shocking, and you should read them, but I can’t say that with the nature of health care these days I was very surprised by the results. Here are the two that I thought were worthy of sharing:

Even though one in three babies in the U.S. are born by cesarean section, more than 80% of women who have given birth or are pregnant have not discussed the surgery with their provider during their pregnancy. 

Even with the overwhelming benefits of breastfeeding to both moms and babies, approximately 3 out of 4 women did not talk with a care provider about breastfeeding during their pregnancy.


These items were discussed in my own pre and post natal meetings with my midwives, however briefly. Certainly, if I had wanted to talk about anything in depth, there was the opportunity as our appointments lasted from 30-60 minutes. In my well woman appointment my midwife and I spoke on a whole range of issues from breastfeeding to cancer to birth control. In fact we could have waxed on for many hours, but I do like to talk a lot. Throw in the topic of midwifery and there’s no stopping me.


This has been a really exciting week for me in my search for ways to inform people about midwifery care and the amazing ways that it can transform so many aspects of health care, not just pregnancy and birth. I hope you’ve taken a couple minutes and checked out the American College of Nurse Midwives website. Thanks to the ACNM for providing such a great opportunity to educate and inform.


I’d be interested in knowing if you learned anything from this week or have considered making any changes in your own health care. If you’re so inclined, and your device will let you, leave a comment below or on Facebook. If you have further questions I’m also happy to point you in the direction of an answer.


vintage bouquet, my new favorite tea from Dawson’s in Boise. With honey please.

Midwifery Week: Debunk A Midwifery Myth

Thursday’s Action Plan is to “Debunk A Midwifery Myth.” The assignment says to go to this web page, find a myth that is most prevalent in my community and then copy/paste it on a social media site, that would be this blog post. All the information on their website is really good, but this is the myth that I find many of my friends didn’t know about midwifery care:

True or False? 
Midwives can prescribe medications
and order tests.
TRUE. CNMs and CMs are licensed to prescribe a full range of substances, medications, and treatments, including pain control medications and birth control. They can also order needed medical tests within their scope of practice and consistent with state laws and practice guidelines.

I’m not sure what many people think it is that midwives do during prenatal appointments that is so different from a similar appointment with a doctor, but I can assure you that all of the same measurements, tests, and symptoms are checked and noted. During my (30-60 minute) appointments I always had my urine checked for protein, my blood pressure taken, my fundal height was measured (how big my belly was getting) and the baby’s heartbeat was observed. I, personally, chose not to have it done with a doppler fetoscope (which is an auditory ultrasound) until after the 5th month and they used a traditional fetoscope before that. We didn’t want to find out the gender of our baby before the birth and therefore didn’t feel it was necessary to do a visual ultrasound, although we could have if we wanted.

At one point there was concern over my possibly high blood pressure. This meant a host of blood draws and collecting my own urine for a weekend in a giant container, so that it could be analyzed at the lab. Luckily everything was perfectly fine, and it was decided that the very excitement of going to my prenatal appointments, and driving through maddening rush hour traffic for 30 minutes, made my heart go aflutter. The problem was solved very simply, by taking my blood pressure at the end of each appointment. From the time the tests were run and we made that simple change, my blood pressure was perfectly normal. I also want to say that I chose NOT to have my blood sugar levels tested (for many reasons). My midwives encouraged me to have it done, and I opted out against their advice, but with their education and blessing.

During my labor, they listened to the baby’s heart beat every hour with a doppler fetoscope. Before and after every single push, and sometimes during, they listened to his heart beat to ensure it was strong and healthy. Which it was. They also kept cervical checks to a minimum, but did perform 3-4, because I tested positive for Group B Strep (GBS) and they didn’t want to push any bacteria into the birth canal. The traditional treatment for GBS is IV antibiotics 6 hours before the baby’s birth, which my midwives (out of hospital) could have done. Thanks to their education and my desire for an alternative I opted for a Chlorhexidine rinse of my lady parts every 6 hours, which I administered myself. It was a whole heck of a lot cheaper too. Overall, there was quite a bit of testing and monitoring that went into my prenatal care and birth, all done by my midwives.

The part that made this experience so different from one with a doctor was the amount of education and discussion that went into each test. This resulted in mine and Luke’s informed choices about the health care Porter and I received. In the end, had anything strayed from our original plan, I knew that the responsibility belonged to ME. That’s the only possible way I could feel comfortable delivering Porter from my body in the way I did. My decisions were always respected because that is the nature of informed health care and midwifery. In return, I respected my midwives education and opinions when they really felt a test was necessary or an observation had to be made. The mutual respect that we had with our midwives was the very best foundation for Porter’s birth and for the future of the health care I will choose for us to receive.

Porter is practicing his counting for future games of Hide and Seek with Lucy and Aunt Bug.

He cracks himself up.

Midwifery Week: Join Team Midwife

Wednesday’s Action plan is to “Join Team Midwife.” You can do this by donating $10 to Team Midwife and/or become a fan of theirs on Facebook. Since I actually donated to my own midwife cause earlier this week, I opted for the Facebook Like. It’s easy, literally 3 clicks of your mouse. Now I’m even more a part of the, “engaged group of midwifery supporters to be the advocacy arm of Our Moment of Truth.” Because if you didn’t know, I think midwifery is important. I’m guessing you knew that by now though.

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Porter and I spent quite a bit of time in downtown Boise today running errands. We don’t usually have to go downtown, but today was the perfect day for it. Not only was the Autumn weather delightful, but they’ve started construction on the building at 8th and Main St. This is a BIG deal because for the entire time we’ve been in Idaho (and longer then that really) there has been a giant hole in the middle of the city. It looks like this building is actually going to happen, which means lots of construction. All this building will surely necessitate a really big crane. We were lucky enough to stumble up the construction of the big crane, which involved two other cranes. If you do the math that makes for a total of 3 cranes, which pretty much means it was like Christmas morning for Porter.

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